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bart |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 12:53 pm |
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My postings here have been less than compelling -- just letting you all know my Dad is dying (it's imminent now) and I've been dealing with a lot the past 10 days or so. A lot happened real fast, and we learned that he was somewhat understated in telling us about his health problems.
Glad my next netflix dvd is a piece of escapist crap, Snacks on a Plane.
You know plane snacks are pretty fucking scary.
Death sucks. |
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Befade |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 12:54 pm |
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Jynx wrote: befade - Hard Candy was an exceptional piece of film. I had no idea what I was picking up but it is definately worth a look.
I was really, really thrown by the ending; and not in a The Sixth Sense kinda way where you get it or you don't and then it is crystal clear; it is, or was to me, a jolt that makes you go "WTF?" Not that TSS is in the same league as this movie, but most of us train ourselves to see the ending or at least take an educated guess at it. Nobody guessed this ending.
I cannot comprehend how a then 18-year-old Page managed to headlock this character without showing the cracks of an acting coach standing beside her spoon feeding her dialog or emotional critique.
Patrick Wilson and Ellen Page are absolutely outphucingstanding. I'm not sure about the Sandra Oh hype, her blip was memorable, but I've had hiccups that lasted longer than her part.
It's a movie that stays with you longer than you want it to. After I returned it, I kept opening my DVD player just to make sure it wasn't in there.
Well........Call me brain dying........I did see this Pam......I was thinking of another movie that came out about a girl in high school who was a prostitute or something.
I think maybe one other person here saw Hard Candy. Actually, I thought the girl became sadistic. But it was an unexpected take on pedaphilia.....which I think is the new hot topic for films......or the last frontier for acceptable discrimination. Patrick Wilson has an everyman quality. Watch him in Little Children. |
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Befade |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 1:05 pm |
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I don't know why I feel compelled to write this.....but I guess I have a slant most of you don't. When I hear people talk about the death of a parent....I can't relate to their pain. I guess I had parents that didn't support me/encourage me/show interest in me or whatever it is that makes a parent beloved to a child.
So I guess I'd say to Bart or Pam or anyone in this situation......Rejoice in the love that you were given.....this person will always be with you in your heart....help him leave this life in peace. |
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Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 1:16 pm |
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Wise words, bets. However, I feel that no matter what kind of Parent/Child relationship you have, the grief over losing one or the other has to be massive. How one tends to deal with said grief is an entirely different can of posts. . . |
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Ghulam |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 1:51 pm |
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Sorry to hear about your Dad, Bart. |
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whiskeypriest |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 1:59 pm |
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My prayers - or if you prefer thoughts - for your father, bart. |
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grace |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 2:39 pm |
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bart,
I'm so sorry to hear about your father. Please know my thoughts are with you. |
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Jynx |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 2:40 pm |
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bart - you're in my thoughts.
My father has taken a turn for the better but is still only being given a 10% chance of making it out of this. He's been in SCVICU since 1/4/07.
He wasn't a great father, or a good father, but he is my father. I adored him as a child, falling into those sleepy daydreams of dancing together at my wedding, laughing together until milk shot out or our noses, teaching me to drive and hammering my first date until he swore to have me home a half hour earlier than I had to be. It never came to fruition, the only thing I saw were drunken hazes, swift backhands and constant reminders that I was identical to my mother. It doesn't make me love him less but it does make me recognize that he is just a man, whether mean or kind, influential or absent, he is just a man. I wish there were more good things to remember but I'll hold on to what I have and, if necessary, will grieve him as only I can do. I honestly believe nobody can love, dislike or grieve him like I can, not even my siblings. It is what it is.
Quote: I think maybe one other person here saw Hard Candy. Actually, I thought the girl became sadistic. But it was an unexpected take on pedaphilia.....which I think is the new hot topic for films......or the last frontier for acceptable discrimination. Patrick Wilson has an everyman quality. Watch him in Little Children.
I don't think she was sadistic, just brutal to a beast. And I think there have been many, many movies about pedophilia (Anjelica Huston's Bastard Out of Carolina being one of the best) and it isn't an untapped frontier, even Kill Bill touched on it as best it could.[/quote] |
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Jynx |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 2:46 pm |
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marj - I'll re-watch Paige before Bond. Honestly, I'm not looking forward to either but hey, I came back to Third Eye so you just never know what's going to happen, do you? |
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whiskeypriest |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 2:51 pm |
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Jynx wrote: bart - you're in my thoughts.
My father has taken a turn for the better but is still only being given a 10% chance of making it out of this. He's been in SCVICU since 1/4/07.
He wasn't a great father, or a good father, but he is my father. I adored him as a child, falling into those sleepy daydreams of dancing together at my wedding, laughing together until milk shot out or our noses, teaching me to drive and hammering my first date until he swore to have me home a half hour earlier than I had to be. It never came to fruition, the only thing I saw were drunken hazes, swift backhands and constant reminders that I was identical to my mother. It doesn't make me love him less but it does make me recognize that he is just a man, whether mean or kind, influential or absent, he is just a man. I wish there were more good things to remember but I'll hold on to what I have and, if necessary, will grieve him as only I can do. I honestly believe nobody can love, dislike or grieve him like I can, not even my siblings. It is what it is.
Quote: I think maybe one other person here saw Hard Candy. Actually, I thought the girl became sadistic. But it was an unexpected take on pedaphilia.....which I think is the new hot topic for films......or the last frontier for acceptable discrimination. Patrick Wilson has an everyman quality. Watch him in Little Children.
I don't think she was sadistic, just brutal to a beast. And I think there have been many, many movies about pedophilia (Anjelica Huston's Bastard Out of Carolina being one of the best) and it isn't an untapped frontier, even Kill Bill touched on it as best it could. [/quote]My prayers and thoughts are with you and your father as well. |
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Syd |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 4:10 pm |
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I enjoyed Wordplay, the documentary about crossword puzzle hobbyists, the New York Times crossword puzzle and the annual crossword tournament. It's not particularly deep, but you get to meet a lot of seemingly nice people, and, unlike in Spellbound, you don't worry about them. I've been to a number of bridge tournaments, and the crossword tournament looks a lot more pleasant. Perhaps it's because the competitors don't have partners to bitch at, and the competition is less face to face. Some of these people have known each other for thirty years, meeting once a year to do something they love. This particular tournament had men as the top five scorers, but two of the women are former champions. I noted with amusement that the pleasantly nerdy Ellen Ripstein was in the top ten for about the 20th time, apparently plays the piano, and twirls a baton in public. There is also a genre of crossword puzzle filk*, something that had never occured to me.
Somehow Will Shortz is exactly how I would have pictured him.
*Filk is actually a form of singing you find late at night at science fiction conventions, generally traditional, pseudo-traditional or parody, often about science fiction or fantasy, although Rudyard Kipling gets set to music a lot. The term seems appropriate here. |
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Befade |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 7:16 pm |
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Pam wrote:
Quote: I don't think she was sadistic, just brutal to a beast. And I think there have been many, many movies about pedophilia (Anjelica Huston's Bastard Out of Carolina being one of the best) and it isn't an untapped frontier, even Kill Bill touched on it as best it could.
When I say pedophilia is an untapped frontier.......I mean the pedophile as a sympathetic figure in films. eg...The Woodsman. |
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lshap |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 10:36 pm |
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What made The Woodsman's pedophile sympathetic was his overcoming pedophilia. |
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Marj |
Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 10:40 pm |
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Jynx wrote: marj - I'll re-watch Paige before Bond. Honestly, I'm not looking forward to either but hey, I came back to Third Eye so you just never know what's going to happen, do you?
Nope, I guess you don't.
Bart - My thoughts are with you as well. |
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billyweeds |
Posted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 12:01 am |
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Marj wrote: Jynx wrote: marj - I'll re-watch Paige before Bond. Honestly, I'm not looking forward to either but hey, I came back to Third Eye so you just never know what's going to happen, do you?
Nope, I guess you don't.
Bart - My thoughts are with you as well.
And mine. |
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